Reblog for great justice.
There’s a lot more about him on A Voice For Men but I do not use them as a cite.
The love that my daughter and I shared was truly special. She is a such a sweet, kind and gentle spirit. I am so sorry that I will not be there to see her grow into a beautiful woman. It absolutely crushed me to not be in her life over the last three years. I worked very hard as a father to build her confidence and self-esteem. She is smart, funny and considerate, but she didn’t know it yet. I pray that she realizes her strengths and her confidence in herself will continue to grow. I love you dearly, [name redacted].
My son [name redacted] was just entering Kindergarten, when I lost access to him. He is gregarious, outgoing and a great athlete. He is smart and fearless. He could have just as much fun by himself as he could with other kids. Even the older boys in our neighbourhood wanted to play with [name redacted]. It absolutely breaks my heart that I will not be able to help him grow into a man. I love you to, [name redacted]. I miss you both so much.
My identity was taken from me, as result of this process. When it began, I was a commercial real estate broker with CB Richard Ellis. I lived by the Golden rule and made a living by bringing parties together and finding the common ground. My reputation as a broker was built on my honesty and integrity. When it ended, I was broke, homeless, unemployed and had no visitation with my own children.
I had no confidence and was paralyzed with fear that I would be going to jail whenever my ex-wife wanted. Nothing I could say or do would stop it. This is what being to death or ‘targeted’ by a psychopath looks like. This is the outcome. I didn’t somehow change into a ‘high-conflict’ person or lose my ability to steer clear of the law. I’ve had never been arrested, depressed, homeless or suicidal before this process. The stress and pressure applied to me was deliberate and nothing I could do or say would get me any relief. Nothing I or my attorneys said to my ex-wife’s attorney or to the Court made any difference. Truth, facts, evidence or even the best interest of my children had no affect on the outcome.
The family court system is broken, but from my experience, it is not the laws, its the lawyers. They feed off of the conflict. They are not hired to reduce conflict or protect the best interest of children, which is why third parties need to be involved. It should be mandatory for children to have a guardian ad litem, with extensive training in abuse and aggression.
It is absolutely shameful that the Fairfax County Court did nothing to intervene or understand the ongoing conflict. Judge Randy Bellows also used the Children as punishment, by withholding access for failing to fax a receipt. The entire conflict centered around the denial of access to the children, it was inconceivable to me that he would use children like this. This is exactly what my ex-wife was doing and now Judge Bellows was doing it for her.
To all my family, friends and the people that supported me through this process, I am so sorry. I know my reactions and behavior throughout this process did not always make sense. None of this made sense to me either. I had no help and the only suggestion I got from my attorneys was to remain silent.
At first, I did what I was told, remained silent and listened to my attorneys. Then after I had given my ex-wife full custody to try and appease her, I learned about Psychopathy and emailed Dr. Samenow about my concerns and asked him for help. Of course, I was ignored. As the conflict continued, I was forced to defend myself. When that didn’t work, I thought I could get the help I needed by speaking out. There is no right or wrong way to defend yourself from abuse. Naively, I thought that abuse was abuse and it would be recognized and something would be done. I thought speaking out would end the abuse or at least get them to back off. It didn’t. When no one did anything they were emboldened.
I took my own life because I had come to the conclusion that there was nothing I could do or say to end the abuse. Every time I got up off my knees, I would get knocked back down. They were not going to let me be the father I wanted to be to my children. People may think I am a coward for giving up on my children, but I didn’t see how I was going to heal from this. I have no money for an attorney, therapy or medication. I have lost four jobs because of this process. I was going to be at their mercy for the rest of my life and they had shown me none.
Being alienated, legally abused, emotionally abused, isolated and financially ruined are all a recipe for suicide. I wish I were stronger to keep going, but the emotional pain and fear of going to court and jail [because of exorbitant child support] became overwhelming. I became paralyzed with fear. I couldn’t flee and I could not fight. I was never going to be allowed to heal or recover. I wish I were better at articulating the psychological and emotional trauma I experienced.
I could fill a book with all the lies and mysterious rulings of the Court. Never have I experienced this kind of pain. I asked for help, but good men did nothing and evil prevailed. All I wanted was a Guardian Ad Litem for my children. Any third party would have been easily been able to confirm or refute all of my allegations, which is why none was ever appointed to protect the children or reduce the conflict.
Abuse is about power and control. Stand up for the abused and speak out. If someone speaks out about abuse, believe them.
Please teach my children empathy and about emotional invalidation and ‘gas-lighting’ or they may end up like me.
God have mercy on my soul.
SOMEONE DO A DATE LIKE THIS WITH ME. I’LL EVEN LET YOU TOUCH THE BOOTY.
Now that’s how you get laid boys.
Holy shit that’s awesome.
I want to
Tumblr’s gender community is literally the dumbest fucking community I’ve ever stumbled upon.
They want to be recognized and taken seriously, they want to further their rights and gain the equality they deserve. This is completely reasonable, oppression is not fucking fun. I’ve been fucked with for a long ass time due to being gay, I know what fucking oppression is. The LGBTQ+ communtiy has come this far by peaceful protest and showing that we’re just as human as everyone else.
Then these stupid little piss whipes come in and toss shit everywhere. Their strategy is literally this:
"We want to gain equal rights and show the world that we’re people too! So we’re going to be as rude, aggressive, and immature as possible in order to obtain this! If people get offended by us saying "Cis-scum", then we’ll tell them that means they’re a privileged piss baby!"
Are you fucking dense? Do you honestly think this will work? The world won’t take you seriously, the world won’t accept you, the world will think you’re batshit insane and try to push you down even more. You are working against the years of progress the trans movement has worked for. You are ebbing away at what so many people fought for out of your sheer stubbornness and stupidity.
TMI Tuesday! Blow up my inbox
what you would do’s
kinks to rate
IT’S ON MY DASH I MUST REBLOG IT
Holy crap this is the coolest.
Oh man I love this video.
This video is the fucking best and every time I watch it I see something new, so if you have never seen it fix that immediately
and its gotten nothing but negative backlashing/ claims of being outright made up. But of course tumblr doesnt fact check and makes assumptions when whoopdie doo look at this
a fucking link that acknowledges the story AND confirms that it was true
nice job guys. A plus
Uhm yea the twitter account post was done the 22nd meaning yesterday so Likely after reading the boogus tumblr story.
Not to mention the email neither confirms or denies shit. The booh owner SAYS RIGHT THERE his account is not his own but one he got from a staff. As well that the girl who cooked the story up was only a volunteer so likely a friend of the staffer who accounts the same tale wanting to try and get their friend out of trouble. Especially considering now it’s known not reporting is against california Law. As he’s quick to point out she’s not affiliated not wanting his event to be any part of the drama.
He even states he doesn’t have the full story and that he needs more before he can account for it.
As such tables near this particular booth have already accounted not seeing anything. And really even if you’re tired and so on a scared child isn’t something easily missed. So there’s nothing but someone else’s account which could easily be a friend trying to fix another’s dumb mistake.
Not to mention Final Draft’s removal was everywhere at once. Including a drunken Purple Tinker complaining about him in a video with drunk /mlp/ 4chan folk. And videos poking fun at his departure. Yet somehow no one even remotely remembers seeing a scared child at a booth or rumors of a creeper something that spreads faster than fire at cons.
Now I’m not saying there couldn’t be a creeper cause hell my main con has one of the worse. Whose been in fact banned from a lot of the events and cons around here now that people have spoken out against him.
But all this story did was draw attention to some idiot on tumblr wanting notes and not considering the heavy weight of their actions. And that’s what upsets me. That now likely cons will have to go through this huge questioning phase because well so many false stories are brought up.
Cats who can’t figure out walls [x]
PLEASE TAKE YOUR CAT TO THE VET IF YOU SEE THEM DOING THIS BEHAVIOR OVER TIME.
It’s called “head pressing” and it occurs in dogs and cats.
Head pressing is characterized by the compulsive act of pressing the head against a wall or other object for no apparent reason. This generally indicates damage to the nervous system, which may result from a number of varying causes, including prosencephalon disease (in which the forebrain and thalamusparts of the brain are damaged), or toxic poisoning.
http://www.vet.cornell.edu/FHC/health_resources/toxoplasmosis.cfm (head pressing is listed as a symptom)
http://sevneurology.com/patients/clip-multilobular-osteochondroma (About a dog’s brain tumor but head pressing is listed as a symptom)
I wasn’t going to reblog this until I read the important caption dang thank you!!!
- "You told me you were going to stop."
- "And what are you going to do if I don’t stop?"
- "This relationship doesn’t need a chaperone."
- "It’s hard to chaperone a relationship when there isn’t one to begin with."
- "So is this how you solve all your problems? You walk away? Genius. I wish everyone thought like you.”
- "There’s someone else…and I’m not sure if it was ever going to be you in the end."
- "Don’t. Just…don’t. I’m done. Goodbye.”
- "Saying goodbye to you is proving to be the easiest thing I’ve ever done."
- "Everyone thinks we’re perfect, but…but look at us! We’re far from it."
- "I can’t stand the sight of you anymore."
- "It was never going to be me, was it?"
- "Face it! You’re too engrossed in your past to see what’s standing right in front of you right now.”
- "What do you expect me to say to that?!"
- "This isn’t over."
- "Oh, trust me when I say that this was over before it even started."
- "Well, you made your bed, so you might as well sleep in it."
I’m fucking tired and I’m not apologizing about telling that bitch off.
Edit: OH and of course you need a fucking tag about pinkie pony BECAUSE YOU FUCKING TALK ABOUT HER ALL THE FUCKING TIME! LIKE I SAID, YOU’RE NO BETTER THEN ANY…
Actually I’m in a relationship, honey
im a shitty rp partner tho
sometimes i reply 19 seconds after youve replied
sometimes i reply 147 years later
I’m fucking tired and I’m not apologizing about telling that bitch off.
Edit: OH and of course you need a fucking tag about pinkie pony BECAUSE YOU FUCKING TALK ABOUT HER ALL THE FUCKING TIME! LIKE I SAID, YOU’RE NO BETTER THEN ANY ANTI BECAUSE YOU GO AFTER ONE PERSON BUT ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS HAVE TO DO WITH HER PERSONAL LIFE AND NOT BECAUSE OF THE WRONGS SHE HAS DONE! YOU CAN FUCKING DISAGREE WITH HER BUT GOING AFTER HER BECAUSE YOU DON’T LIKE HOW SHE DRAWS OR MAKING FUN OF HER BECAUSE OF HER DREAM JOB IS NOT OKAY AND THAT’S BULLYING!
I am screaming pay attention to me. Though I claimed I end it I clearly can not. Why are you not paying attention to me. I am screaming. I am screaming no please pay attention to me. I am screaming
here we have yet another tenaflyviper apologist failing to defend their leader
Crikey! We’ve run across the common Toolateicus. This creature is fairly common breed in this area. Coming far too late and with bad mating calls it misses it’s mark again! What a beaut! It’s fascinating how the creature survives
Connor gazed at the writing from the princess on his arm. ”As you are mine,” he replied, wrapping both his arms around her.
She smiles up at him quietly. “…Is it alright?”
"Of course it is, princess," he answered, before nuzzling into her neck softly, before pressing a gentle kiss to it.
She goes completely red from the affection. “I do rather wish you’d say my name, even if it’s only between the two of us..” Yue smiles again. “Connor.”